When I graduated from college, I wasn’t even thinking about a job. I’m a little embarrassed to admit this, but I actually had some pretty unusual ideas about a career: I thought I didn’t need one! My plan was to get married by 23, have children by 25, and be the CEO of my household while my husband had a high-paying job and supported the family. No, I wasn’t born in the 1950s, but I was born in Utah and raised in a culture in which marriage and family was the number one priority.